I never imagine of a happy ever after. As I grow old, I put into mind that fairy tales do not exist in the real world. But hey, it was up to you on how you treat your situation, either a sweet dream or a nightmare.
I have asked few people on how you will know that she/he is the one. The answers would fall into this categories:
--You will be willing to submit yourself as a woman
--You will be willing to submit yourself as a man
For my special someone, A WOMAN I CANNOT LEAVE WITHOUT.
For me, THE MAN AFTER GOD'S OWN HEART.
It would be very difficult for a young maiden to search for her someone, for it wasn't design that it be a lady who would chase after a man. I, I did not search for him, I prayed for him.
It wasn't an accident nor a co-incident that we have met and loved each other. We commit ourselves to one another and promising to be at each others side whatever worst or good times happen. It was when I experienced his love toward me that I finally felt how to be a seriously committed. Literally of how you function as a whole even without his supervision.
He doesn't asks me to change, neither did I force him to do so, it was love that helps us to adjust through thick and thin. From that special moment, I said to myself," I will never let you go".
Love is unconditional, it needs effort but it doesn't require you. It needs care but it won't tell you. Love is about feeling, the inside of you will tell you what to do if you really have that person in heart and mind.